Wednesday 16 February 2011

David Morgan-Hewitt's Modern Manners - Office Parties


Oh boy, this really is minefield for those who want to get it right! There are so many things which can go wrong so you really need to be aware of what you are doing.

Think about your company. Is it quite conservative or a little more informal? Are your co-workers older or younger? Do you colleagues gossip a lot to each other? Will anything you do be on the internal email by 9am the next morning? Are your secrets going to be shouted out in the office canteen? All of this needs to be considered!

Start by dressing appropriately. Your idea of casual maybe rather more racy than your colleague’s idea. If in doubt, err on the side of caution. Also do ensure that whatever clothes you have decided to wear do actually stay on all night...

Do not get drunk. Stop drinking as soon as you reach the point of tipsy if not before. You will regret it in the morning if you drink too much.

Join in and have fun but do not let your tongue get too loose. Telling everybody your personal thoughts about a colleague will always be a very bad idea.

Just take care!


Tuesday 1 February 2011

David Morgan-Hewitt's Modern Manners - IS LOVE IN THE AIR?

How to cope with Valentines Day

This is one day filled with potential pitfalls so do be very careful right from the word go!

Do: Before making a reservation at an expensive restaurant for you and your loved one decide whether you both want to be out in a crowded restaurant packed in with lots of other cooing couples. If you do not want this, or your partner does not, then save your pennies and stay put at home.

Do: Give your undivided attention to your loved one on this special day. Spend time talking and sharing. This means your mobile should be off and if you need to be in contact with the babysitter give them the restaurant number in case of emergencies.

Do: Always buy flowers and chocolates. They are never a bad idea.

Don’t: Try and go Dutch. If you want to take your partner out, then pay for them.

Don’t: Believe a lady when she says she does not believe in Valentines Day – she does.

The more romantic the better but do bear in mind what your partner likes and, more importantly, does not like. Good luck.